Ignoring why it happens

More dates followed, along with some pretty mind-blowing sex. But you never thought it was just about sex. There were lots of loving messages and affectionate evenings curled up with a movie. You really thought that this one might be going somewhere. He started making excuses to leave your place after dinner and sex, rather than staying the night. Just when you thought you might just finally have found someone you could plan a future with, they go cold on you.

Maybe he even ended up totally ghosting you. QUIZ: Does he really love you? My fun new Zodiac quiz can help you figure it out, based on his Zodiac sign. Check it out here.

When a guy goes cold on you, you just want to know why. But ignoring him might just be the way to get the result you really want. There are many reasons why a guy who was previously hotter-than-hot has gone cold. But there comes a point when you want to go deeper than just sex. It feels like a natural progression. This is the point where some guys go cold. QUIZ: What does your man want from you?

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Talk to him and see if you can make that happen while still keeping some of the fun and if you want to tell him to ditch the jogging pants, no one would blame you. The same effect occurs when you are silent in response to the verbal attacks of others. You will make them seem upset, angry, and a little crazy. They will begin to doubt the effect their words have on you and the effect their actions have on the world at large. Some people will go out of their way to witness an effect to the actions that they commit.

Be prepared and always consider your own safety first. Silence should be used when you know you are not in any physical danger from the other party. They are always closing discussions and continually moving the dialogue forward.

They seem to have little patience for repetitive ideas and monotonous dialogue. They speak directly whilst setting unproductive sentiments aside. If these important individuals were to spend too much time on futile things which are under their pay grade, then they would be taking bandwidth away from what needs focusing on.

By ignoring someone who chooses to spend time on you, you serve to differentiate your time from theirs in terms of its value. It will remain on record until you respond. Silence has the perk of a lack of incrimination when used right. You cannot be held accountable for causing pain to another person by remaining silent in response to their own attacks.

Silence from your end, only has the capacity to get you in trouble when you use it explicitly to cause pain to innocent people. Remember thereby, that silence as a psychological warfare tool is most effective when the actions of another warrant its use. Ensure that if an investigation is conducted into the objective series of events, your silence was not the first move made.

Label a discrete malicious act someone else conducts as warranting silence from your end prior to implementing the strategy to ignore. Self defense methods which are used in offensive ways constitute abuse. Serving the innocent with a psychologically painful bout of silence is not an act which will go unpunished. Do not be fooled by the term ignoring. It is a very active process for the parent. Think of ignoring as the opposite of paying attention. When you ignore your child, you do not neglect him or stand by while he misbehaves.

Instead, you take all your attention away from your child and his behavior. Ignoring usually helps stop behaviors that your child is using to get your attention. This includes behaviors like throwing tantrums, whining, and interrupting.

When you are ignoring, you do not look at your child or talk to him. Ignore all protests or excuses to get your attention. The goal is to decrease behaviors you do not like or you want your child to stop. Remember that children love attention. Negative attention like screaming or yelling can be rewarding to a child.

This is true especially if you were not paying attention to your child before the misbehavior started. By giving your child attention during tantrums, you may accidentally reward the behavior and increase the chance it will happen again. When you ignore some misbehaviors, you can make it less likely your child will do the behavior again.